š¦ Gratitude at the Table: AA (Alcoholics Anonymous), Thanksgiving, and the Gift of Sobriety
- Catherine Merola
- Nov 12, 2025
- 4 min read

The smell of roasted turkey fills the air, pumpkin pies cool on the counter, and families gather around tables across America. Thanksgiving is a holiday built on gratitude, but for members of AA (Alcoholics Anonymous), gratitude isnāt just a seasonal traditionāitās a daily practice, a lifeline, and a spiritual compass.
This story begins in Akron, Ohio, in 1935, when two menāBill Wilson and Dr. Bob Smithāsat together in a small house and discovered that one alcoholic helping another could spark a miracle. That moment gave birth to AA (Alcoholics Anonymous), and nearly a century later, their legacy still echoes in living rooms, church basements, and holiday gatherings around the world.
š A Thanksgiving Table in Akron
Imagine Bill W. and Dr. Bob at a modest Thanksgiving table in the late 1930s. The Depression had left scars, alcohol had nearly destroyed their lives, and yet here they wereāsober, grateful, and sharing fellowship. Bill, ever the storyteller, might have leaned back and said, āGratitude is the antidote to resentment.ā Dr. Bob, practical and humble, might have nodded, reminding everyone that service to others was the true feast.
That spirit of gratitude became woven into AA (Alcoholics Anonymous)ās DNA. Today, many groups host special āGratitude Meetingsā on Thanksgiving, where members share what sobriety has given them. For some, itās the chance to reconnect with family. For others, itās simply waking up clearāheaded and hopeful.
š The Big Book and Gratitude
The AA Big Book, first published in 1939, is filled with stories of despair transformed into hope. In its pages, gratitude shines as a recurring theme. One passage reminds us: āWe are sure God wants us to be happy, joyous, and free.āĀ That freedom is the essence of Thanksgiving.
For those new to recovery, tools like the Big Book of Alcoholics AnonymousĀ and AA Big Book tabsĀ make navigating the text easier, turning inspiration into action. Just as a Thanksgiving recipe guides a cook, these resources guide members through the steps that lead to lasting sobriety.
š ļø Tools for a Sober Holiday
The holidays can be tricky for anyone in recovery. Family tensions, old drinking buddies, or even the simple sight of a wine glass can stir up cravings. Thatās why AA (Alcoholics Anonymous) Sobriety toolsĀ are so vital. From meetings to literature, from prayer to sponsorship, these tools are like utensils at the Thanksgiving tableāyou need them to fully enjoy the feast.
Some members keep a Sobriety tracker appĀ handy, marking each day as a victory. Others lean on Sober living toolsĀ or carry AA (Alcoholics Anonymous) literatureĀ in their pocket, ready to flip open when temptation strikes. And of course, many cherish Sobriety Giftsātokens of milestones that remind them how far theyāve come.
š¦ Bill W., Dr. Bob, and the Spirit of Service
One Thanksgiving story often retold in AA (Alcoholics Anonymous)Ā circles is how Bill W. emphasized service as the cornerstone of gratitude. He believed that helping another alcoholic was the surest way to stay sober. Dr. Bob lived this principle daily, opening his home to newcomers and reminding them that humility and honesty were the true feast.
Picture it: Bill W. carving a turkey, pausing to tell a newcomer, āThe antidote to fear is faith, and the antidote to resentment is gratitude.ā Dr. Bob passing mashed potatoes, quietly adding, āKeep it simple.ā These werenāt just holiday pleasantriesāthey were survival tools, lessons that still guide millions today.
š The 4th Step and Thanksgiving Reflection
Thanksgiving is also a perfect time to reflect on the 4th Step: making a searching and fearless moral inventory. Just as we take stock of blessings at the holiday table, the Fourth Step invites us to take stock of our livesāour resentments, fears, and harms done.
Itās not always easy. But like peeling potatoes or basting a turkey, the work pays off. The inventory clears space for gratitude, allowing members to see not just what was lost, but what has been gained in sobriety.
š Modern Sobriety and Holiday Joy
Today, AA (Alcoholics Anonymous)Ā members celebrate Thanksgiving in countless ways. Some attend marathon meetings that run all day, offering fellowship for those without family. Others bring Sobriety GiftsĀ to share, tokens of encouragement that sparkle brighter than any holiday decoration.
And for the techāsavvy, tools like the Sobriety tracker appĀ keep gratitude close at hand, reminding members that each day sober is a gift worth celebrating.
Even practical guides like How to tab AA 12x12 bookĀ make the journey smoother, ensuring that members can quickly find the wisdom they need when holiday stress creeps in.
š A Story of Gratitude
Letās imagine a newcomer named Sarah. Itās her first Thanksgiving sober. Sheās nervousāher family drinks, the house is loud, and the smell of wine lingers. But she carries her AA Big Book, tabbed and highlighted, ready to lean on its wisdom.
At the table, someone raises a glass of champagne. Sarah feels the pull. But then she remembers the words of Bill W.: āGratitude is the antidote to resentment.ā She takes a deep breath, whispers a prayer, and instead of reaching for the glass, she reaches for her gratitude list.
She writes:
ā¢Ā I am sober today.
ā¢Ā I have a fellowship that loves me.
ā¢Ā I have tools to guide me.
ā¢Ā I am free.
And just like that, Thanksgiving becomes more than a holidayāit becomes a milestone.
šļø Closing Reflection
AA (Alcoholics Anonymous)Ā has always been about more than abstinence. Itās about transformation, fellowship, and gratitude. Thanksgiving magnifies these truths, reminding us that sobriety is not just freedom from alcoholāitās freedom to live, love, and celebrate.
So whether youāre carving turkey, passing mashed potatoes, or sitting in a gratitude meeting, remember: the feast isnāt on the tableāitās in the heart.
This Thanksgiving, letās honor Bill W. and Dr. Bob by living their legacy. Letās open our AA Big Book tabs, share our AA (Alcoholics Anonymous) literature, and embrace the Sober living toolsĀ that keep us strong. Letās give thanks not just for sobriety, but for the chance to pass it on.
Because in the end, gratitude isnāt just the spirit of Thanksgivingāitās the heartbeat of recovery.
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